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The start of the year can feel like a race — lists of goals, expectations, and pressure to “get it all done.” But real transformation comes when you pause and reflect: How am I doing with my goals? Am I at peace knowing I don’t have to do everything at once? Am I giving myself grace?

Many people set goals in January but feel guilt, frustration, or even shame if they aren’t “perfect” by February. The truth is: no one achieves everything at once. Growth is a journey, not a sprint.

Imagine you’re learning a new language. You wouldn’t expect to speak fluently in a week — you’d celebrate each new word, each small conversation. Your wellness journey works the same way.

Ways to Give Yourself Grace:

Pause and Reflect: Ask yourself, “What’s one thing I’m proud of since the year started?”
Release Perfection: Understand that slow, steady progress is still progress.
Adjust, Don’t Abandon: If a goal feels too heavy, scale it back instead of giving up.
Celebrate Small Wins: Write them down — they’re proof of your commitment.
Focus on Peace: Your worth isn’t tied to productivity. Feeling calm and aligned is just as valuable as checking off a task.

Tip:
This year, give yourself permission to grow at your own pace. Reflect with kindness, acknowledge your wins, and allow space for peace. You don’t have to do everything at once — you’re allowed to be a work in progress.

This week, take five minutes to reflect on your goals. Write down one small win and one way you can give yourself grace moving forward.

Written by Rosie Moore, DNP, RN, LNC, BC-FMP

The New Year often brings hope, motivation, and a list of resolutions. But for many, this excitement quickly turns to frustration when goals feel overwhelming or unrealistic. Functional medicine and wellness aren’t about overnight change — lasting results come from pacing yourself and meeting yourself where you are.

Many people fall into the trap of:

Setting large goals that aren’t realistic for their current lifestyle
Expecting instant results and feeling discouraged when progress is slow
Comparing themselves to others who seem “perfect” or more disciplined

Think of it like planting a garden. You can’t expect a seed to become a full bloom overnight. You need water, sunlight, and care over time. Health goals work the same way — small, consistent actions compound into real change.

Tips for Achievable New Year Goals:

Start small: Pick one or two meaningful goals instead of a long list.
Focus on habits, not outcomes: Instead of “lose 20 pounds,” try “walk 20 minutes daily” or “add a vegetable to every meal.”
Celebrate small wins: Each completed habit builds momentum and confidence.
Be flexible: Life happens. Adjust your plan rather than giving up.
Reflect regularly: Check in weekly or monthly to assess what’s working and what isn’t — without judgment.

The key to New Year success isn’t perfection — it’s patience, persistence, and self-compassion. By pacing yourself and focusing on realistic, actionable steps, you’ll create habits that last well beyond January.

This week, choose one health or wellness goal and break it into small steps you can realistically take. Track your progress and celebrate each step forward.

Written by Rosie Moore, DNP, RN, LNC, BC-FMP

Years of experience in Work Comp, Case Management, Disease Management, Utilization Review and Prior Authorization.

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